Sunday, April 21, 2013

Delta Point


It was the day we've been hoping for since the sun moved north of the equator in March, one of those days where you need a jacket in the shade but out in the sun you toy with the idea of a short-sleeved t-shirt.  When we pulled in to the Marshland Access parking lot, a man got out of a white van with two big dogs and Sam asked if he was the dog catcher.  Eva, of course, screamed at the thought of dogs in her space but seemed to feel secure sitting in one side of the double stroller.  We loaded up with raspberries and pepperoni and sweet peppers and the all-important Lunchables, and we dusted off the nature scavenger hunt checklist and we set out on one of our favorite trails in the Trempealeau Wildlife Refuge.  Eva mostly rode in the stroller but Sammy and I raced and looked for flowers and big rocks and leaves and animal poop.  We spied a few small birds and several geese and wood ducks and a mating pair of Sand Hill cranes, and in the distance we could see a ballet of twelve migrating pelicans.  The trail was in good shape except the last little stretch before the picnic bench where the water was deep enough to soak our shoes and a few inches of Sammy's pants.  After tossing sticks in the water and and eating cheese and crackers and trying to identify the birds, we headed back.  Just one quick stop in which Eva learned how to pee outside, and the kids collapsed in the stroller and I thought about how much I loved having a dog on the trail and how much easier it all is when you're not outnumbered.





Saturday, April 13, 2013

Migration


Over the last few weeks mating pairs of bald eagles have started circling in the sky and sand hill cranes have glided over us on the road, and the inevitable threesomes of geese that signal spring have arrived, but the weather has been just a tease.  Warm sweatshirt weather one day followed by icy wintry mix storms the next three days.  We woke up this morning to a light snow cover and a forecast for increasing winds as the day wore on, so we headed to Perrot State Park early to check out migrating canvasbacks and gadwalls and to see if we could find any green plants along the Black Walnut trail. 








Wednesday, April 10, 2013

Before the Storm



What Spring looked like before today








Sunday, April 7, 2013

Quite the Aquarium Adventure

The day started with hope and excitement after both of my children had seemed to quickly recover from the 24-hour puking virus that was racing through Sam's pre-school.  And despite Kate mentioning that Eomji wasn't feeling 100%, we piled the car full of suitcases and car activities and snacks and a cooler with strawberries and cheese and yogurt squeezers and set out for an overnight adventure up the river.  Sam wasn't as impressed with the dozens of eagles fishing on the recently opened water of the Mississippi River as I was.  He was anxious to see the Lego store and the Mall of America aquarium and the Science Museum, excited to stay in a hotel suite with a kitchen and two separate bedrooms.

The drive up the river was lovely, the girls buckled in right behind Kate and I mostly content with pretzels and magic marker princess activity books, the boys teasing each other in the way back.  Kate and I caught up on the crazy developments in our lives talking about religion and creative writing and children and dating as a single mom.  We stopped in Prescott for a picnic in the cold, windy sunshine so the everyone could pee and run off a little energy before we got to the mall.  And we all laughed as Sam and Gedion ran and ran and ran from the Tenneessee lot through a glass tunnel over the road and in to the Mall.

"Remember Hooters," I told the boys.  "This is how we find our way back to our car."

And the ride in the glass elevator down to the lower level for the Aquarium was even fun.  But shortly after our second elevator ride Kate was on her knees cleaning up vomit and I was rounding up the other 3 kids.

I have to say, if you have to have a puking toddler in a crowded public place, you want to manage it with Kate.  There were several attempts at clean-up and regrouping and maybe-we-should-go-home.  And layers of clothing were stripped and bagged and we just kept moving forward.  But after I chased Eva through the shark tunnels while Sam and Gedion marveled at jellyfish and seahorses and hammerheads and sting rays and giant fish and Kate and Eomji rejoined us halfway through the aquarium we decided we would be going home after the Lego experience.  Unfortunately we never made it there.

The day was not a total loss.  The boys had a blast and I got to catch up with a good friend, and when all 4 kids were buckled in the car it was very pleasant.  The boys were disappointed to miss the Lego store, but after a Lego picnic dinner at our house and some discussions of all the sea life we had seen that day, everyone was happy.  Well, except maybe poor little Eomji.















Monday, April 1, 2013

What We'll Remember


I was chatting with a co-worker as we washed our hands in the bathroom this morning and I asked her how her little guy enjoyed Easter, if he's old enough to get in to it yet.  He'll be one this month and he's just started standing up, isn't walking and getting in to trouble yet.  She asked me how my kids are, how our Easter was, and I told her that I fondly remember those days of having just one little guy who wasn't mobile and in to anything.  No fighting.  No screaming.  No running off in to traffic in defiance.  No throwing plates across the room because they're the wrong color.  No he-hit-me-she-looked-at-me-the-wrong-way

I'm sure some day I'll look back on THESE DAYS fondly and remember the way my children delighted in each other and the world... during the moments when I wasn't ready to tear my hair out.  Yes, I'm often exhausted and frustrated and at my wit's end from all the whining and fighting and screaming and tattling and defiance, but I look back on Easter weekend and remember the way Sam sunk in to a chair to read the farting dog book with Grandma or the way Eva ran across the pavement at the zoo to show me the blue plastic easter egg she pulled from the pile along the snowbank.  I can smile about the fact that thanks to Grandma we were actually able to go out to public events without me losing a child or Eva getting run over by a car at the Wildlife Center.  

Grandma adores these kids and they adore her, and I suspect I'm the bad guy in the whole thing because they all get a little sick of hearing me sigh and make demands, but nobody will remember any of that.  What I'll remember is Grandma's special at-Sam's-request salmon with dill sauce Friday night and the two children passed out in the backseat after a wonderful morning at the zoo and the way Sam insisted we thank God for the food and for Grandma and for the easter bunny before we sat down to eat our Easter ham.  Yes, I'm sometimes exhausted and overextended and anxious for a little time to myself, but I'm always, ALWAYS so grateful my children have their Grandma and Grandma has my children and we get to spend these holidays together as a family.  


 Feeding the ducks at The Wildlife Sanctuary


 Grandma is Sam's best pal, and he likes to have her all to himself.

 

 Easter Egg Hunt at The N.E.W. Zoo

 Feeding the giraffes - Not too close, Mommy!

 Has anyone yet noticed that I'm being defiant and refusing to go along with you?

 High Five Easter Bunny 
(That's just a guy in a costume, Mommy.  That's not the real Easter Bunny.)


 6:30am  The Loot


 Our Robot Creation

 Perfect spring weather